Halley Suitt wrote recently about what really matters.
"There really are only about five things that matter:
Thumb: You love someone.
Pointer: Someone loves you.
Middle Finger: Your work: you have the bravery to do what you love and really become yourself and screw what anyone else thinks about it.
Ring Finger: Connection to people, family, friends
Pinky: Eat, drink, be merry." "Being Old, You Forget"-- Halley Suitt
I couldn't say it better myself -- I'm not going to try.
Thumb: You love someone.
Pointer: Someone loves you.
Middle Finger: Your work: you have the bravery to do what you love and really become yourself and screw what anyone else thinks about it.
Ring Finger: Connection to people, family, friends
Pinky: Eat, drink, be merry." "Being Old, You Forget"-- Halley Suitt

really like this.